Showing posts with label cursing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cursing. Show all posts

April 03, 2017

A BOY, A SNAKE, TWO WOLVES, AND A SONG


When I was young, my grandmother told me a story about a young boy and a snake. The boy’s mother gave him some milk with some cornbread mixed with it. Like he had done the last few times she fed him, he took his food and went outside.
When she decided to go out and see what he was doing, she found him sitting by the rock chimney feeding a snake. It scared her so bad that she grabbed her son and ran back into the house with him, and began checking him to see if he had been bitten. I don’t remember if there was a moral to the story, or if it was even true. My grandmother was part Native American, and she told us lots of stories from Native American culture as well as fairy tales, from children’s books.
There are many old Indian tales that are very interesting. Like the one about how snakes got their poison, and the one about how the world was created. I like the one about the two wolves living inside every person. It is a metaphor explaining the two natures that we all have. The good nature and the bad one. The moral of that story is that whichever one you feed will be the strongest.
This same idea can be found in the Bible. There, it refers to the old man of sin and the new man in Christ. Whichever one we feed will grow strong and thrive. There’s a good little kid's song that I learned very early in my childhood that came from that very idea. It says,
“Oh, be careful little eyes what you see.”
“Oh, be careful little ears what you hear.”
“For the Father up above is looking down in love.
So be careful little eyes what you see (hear).”
That’s a great little song with a great big message. We have to guard our minds and be careful about what we see and hear. That’s what God tells us throughout the Bible.
Proverbs 4:23 says, Guard your heart (mind) with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
We have to be careful where we go, and what we say and do as well. Those are other lines in the song. 1st Thessalonians 5:22 says, Refrain from all forms of evil. 
The first verse in the book of Job tells us that Job was a holy man that revered God and went out of his way to avoid evil. If we want to remain holy we have to do the same thing. We have to be careful where we go.
Both the song and the Bible also show us that we should watch what we say and do. This is very important. When I was a young Christian, I remember hearing a few older Christians cursing. I’ll never forget how shocked I was. I couldn’t believe a saved person would say things like that. Then I learned that many Christians don’t see anything wrong with it at all, but the Bible says they’re wrong.
2 Timothy 2:16 
16 But shun profane and vain talking: for they will lead to more ungodliness.
Did you get that? Using profanity leads to ungodliness. People who want to be godly should avoid profanity. In Matthew 12:34, Jesus said, "...out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks." Our words show what’s in our hearts. I know that to be true from my own personal experience.
James 1:26 
26 If any of you think you are religious and don’t bridle your tongue, but you deceive your own heart, your religion is worthless.
“So be careful little (and big) lips what you say.”
Don’t be buddies with the snake. Feed the good wolf and avoid all evil like it’s the Plague, and grow more godly.
For an in-depth study of what God says about using profanity read What’s Wrong With Using Profanity?

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August 21, 2016

MY SECOND CAR; WORSE THAN THE FIRST


I told you about my first car several weeks ago. I wish I could tell you I had a better experience with my second car, but it is what it is; Adventure and adversity. I had a 19-inch TV I had either bought or acquired in a trade. I don’t really remember. My uncle, being a master trader, convinced me to buy a CB radio from him, and offer both the TV and the radio in trade to a man he knew, for a car he had. It was a 1975 Mustang. You heard me right; a 1975 Mustang. The ugliest Mustang body style ever made. It was red with a white rag-top, with dulling paint. It had not been well taken care of. It was sitting in his yard just rusting away. It had all kinds of problems, but my uncle assured me that he would help me get it going. He was a master mechanic, and I knew he could do it, so I made the deal, and started home. Immediately I noticed the smell of burning oil. The left side of the rear was lower than the right. The tires were bald and it smoked, but I had a car.

We got the car to my uncle’s house, and he looked it over to see what it needed. It needed to be jacked up, and a new car slid under it. That’s a funny way of saying it was a pile of junk. The motor was shot, and the transmission was on its way. The body had problems, and it was really unsafe. Well, there was nothing I could do but park it in the yard, and let it rust, or drive it until it wouldn’t go anymore.

My dad told me about an old car he had owned when he was young. It was a mess, and he couldn’t keep it running, so when he got it going one last time, he drove it into the woods toward the river as fast as he could. He ran over briers, bushes, saplings, and trees until he could go no further. He then got out, and walked away, leaving the car there to rot. He laughed when he told me an older man he knew found the car, drug it out of the bottom, fixed it, and drove it for several years.

As much trouble as I was having with my car, I wanted to do something similar, but I was thinking more along the lines of driving it off a cliff. I imagined jacking it up in the back just enough to get the tires off the ground. Then I would start it up, place a large stone on the gas peddle, and push it off the jack. In my mind I could see the car burning out, slinging dirt everywhere as it flew off the cliff, and then exploding into a ball of flames as it tumbled to its resting place, or rather, its rusting place. There were a few snags in making my fantasy a reality, though. One, I didn’t really have a cliff anywhere close. Two, I was sure it would be a crime to do something like that, especially if I didn’t own the property where this imaginary event may occur, and three, I didn’t have a large stone for the gas pedal.

In reality, I didn’t really have the courage to actually destroy the thing, so I just drove it around, visiting family, until it would die. My cousin rode around with me, and when it would die, he would jump in the driver’s seat, and I would push the car. He would let out on the clutch, and hopefully, it would crank.

One time when it died, we were going up a hill. He got behind the wheel, and let the car roll backward. He couldn’t get it to go into gear to crank it. He was so focused on the gear stick, he didn’t realize he was about to go off the road into the river. At the last minute, he turned just in time to avoid the water and ended up in some bushes.

Another day, we were off on an old gravel back road, and the thing died. It was flooded out, and wouldn’t start. The road was pretty flat, and the gravel was thick, so there was nothing we could do but call someone. We called my uncle, and he headed our way. There was only one problem; He was drinking. When he got there, he didn’t have a chain, or a tow strap with him, so he said he would push us. Now, the reason one side of my car was lower than the other was it had air shocks, and the left one had a leak. I had aired it back up, and now the rear of the car was pretty high. It looked kind of like a dragster. When my uncle started pushing us, the bumpers seemed to match up, but as he drove faster, my bumper slid on top of his, lifting the back wheels off the road. I couldn’t get the car started that way.

Having not been driving long, I was pretty nervous anyway, but knowing my uncle was drinking, I was downright scared. As he accelerated, we became terrified. We wanted him to stop, but we had no way of letting him know that. For a minute the bumper of my car was stuck on top of the bumper of his car, but when he stepped on his brakes we came loose. I tried engaging the clutch, but it was useless. The car wouldn’t start. The tires just kept sliding on the gravel.

Finally, we came to a stop in the middle of the road. When we looked back to see where my uncle was, we saw him speeding toward us, apparently with no intention of stopping. My cousin screamed, “He’s gonna hit us.” That’s exactly what he did, and we were going again, with the back wheels up in the air. Finally, the car started, and I put the pedal to the medal, hoping he would quickly realize the thing was running on its own. I drove straight to his house and parked that death trap for a while, to let my nerves settle, and I didn’t start it back up until I knew he was sober.

Another time the car died, and we couldn’t get it to start at all. We were on the road just outside my uncle’s sister’s house. We went to call him on her CB radio. She wasn’t home, but her son was, and he was drunk. He let us make the call, but I believe my uncle was sleeping, or not at home, or something. I don’t recall just why but, he wasn’t coming anytime soon, so I told my cousin, we would just have to push the car home. I jokingly said, something like, “Come on and help us push this car home,” to my cousin’s cousin. He was the guy who was drunk. He just looked at me, and I went on out to my car. All of a sudden, out of nowhere, there he was. He was acting insane, cursing, and saying all kinds of crazy stuff. He wanted to fight about what I had said. I told him I was only joking, but he wouldn’t stop. I was scared, but thank God for sending help. One of his friends came along and convinced him that I didn’t mean anything by it.

I really wanted to get my car away from there now, as quickly as possible, and I wasted no time getting it rolling. I stood up on the foot threshold and steered the car until it slowed down, then I would step off, and get it going again as fast as I could, then I would jump back up on the threshold again. I did this a couple of times, then when the car started slowing down again, I stepped down one last time.

The car was rolling much faster than I thought, so when my feet hit the ground that time, it was like they stuck to the pavement. Down I went on my left knee. It hit hard, and it’s still damaged to this day. I got up as quickly as I could to see where the car and my cousin were. He was still standing on the threshold of the passenger side. The car was still rolling with no driver. Just then it left the road and rolled up a steep embankment. It came to an abrupt stop as it hit something; Either a light pole or a fence post. My cousin fell onto the ground, and I believe the car would have rolled over on him if the door had not been open. It stuck in the ground beside him at a ninety-degree angle, preventing it from crushing him. I finally gave up and got rid of that thing, and I was glad I did. I was better off without it. It was just too much trouble.

My experiences with that car remind me of sin. We think it’s something we want, and if it’s not exactly what we want, we think we can fix it. We keep playing around with it even after it has caused us problems, and even after it almost kills us. In Job chapter 1, God said that Job was a righteous man, and he avoided evil. We need to be like Job. We need to learn to identify sin and avoid it. We will be better off if we never get caught up in it in the first place.

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August 23, 2015

GETTING COMFORTABLE WITH SIN


Do you remember when you were a young child? Remember when you would get hurt? I sure do. I got hurt a lot when I was young. Most of the time it was because I was doing something I was told NOT to do.
When my children were growing up I observed lots of things they did, and I learned all kinds of lessons from them. I think they taught me as much as I taught them. One thing I observed was their pain threshold. A child cannot endure the same amount of pain that an adult can.
I remember my youngest son touching something made of metal that had been out in the sun and it burned his hand, but when I touched it, it was tolerable to me. Same thing with washing dishes. I could stand much hotter water than my children could because my hands were tougher and I had been used to heat longer than they had. The older you get the tougher your skin gets, and the more it can take.
I’ve been shaving for a lot of years. When I first started my face was tender and I got a lot of cuts. The aftershave would burn so bad at times I didn’t want to use it again. The more I used it though, the more tolerable it became. My face got used to it and built up a tolerance for pain. I guess it got tougher and doesn’t hurt as much as it once did. It was the same when I first started shaving my head. I put rubbing alcohol on it afterward, and I wanted to scream the first few times. Now it hardly bothers me at all.
Some people have chronic pain that never goes away. I have suffered from extreme back pain for many years now. At times it has been almost unbearable. After several years I came to grips with the fact I would never be free from pain again. I’ve learned to live with it and to do what I have to, to deal with it.
I hate the pain. I don’t want it in my life, but I’ve become used to it. I no longer pray every day it will leave like I used to. It has become part of my life that I have incorporated into my daily and nightly routines. I have decided there’s nothing I can do to get free from pain.
That’s how it is with sin. We know we’re not supposed to sin, and when we do it hurts. Baring the consequences, the pain is usually just emotional, but if we’re faced with that temptation again it’s easier to give in, and it doesn’t bother us as much as it did the first time. Eventually, we’re living in that sin, daily. We’ve made it part of our lives, and we no longer pray daily to be free from it. We decide there’s nothing we can do to get free.
The Bible tells us that by looking at Jesus we become like him (2 Corinthians 3:18). In the same way, whatever bad things we look at, we become like that. Some will argue that this is not true, but we see it all the time. You become like the people you hang out with whether they’re good or bad. My grandmother used to say they rub off on you. Ever hear the saying, “If you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas?” Ever hear “to be successful you must surround yourself with successful people?” It’s common sense. Whatever we focus on daily, we’re molded and shaped into that very thing.
I know TV and movies aren’t all bad, but the entertainment industry has an agenda other than just entertaining us. If we watch things with cursing and sexual content over and over, we get desensitized and we barely notice it anymore. Pretty soon, we let words slip that should never come out of our mouths, and soon we’re talking and acting just like the world.
Every time we give in to temptation, it becomes easier to sin the next time that temptation comes. On the other hand, every time we resist temptation, it becomes easier to resist that temptation, the next time it comes.
We have to be careful about what we look at, and what we listen to. We need to identify sin and call it by its name. There’s no such thing as a little sin. Sin is sin, and if we don’t identify it and stomp it out, it will take over our lives, and we won’t even know it until it’s too late. Don’t get comfortable with sin.
We need to look at Jesus and get to know him by reading his word and praying to him every day. We need to develop a close personal relationship with him, and he’ll show us what’s right and what’s wrong. Don’t just talk to him, listen to him as well. He’ll tell us when we do something wrong, and he’ll change us into the people he wants us to be; If we’ll only allow him to.
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December 25, 2014

WHAT'S WRONG WITH USING PROFANITY?


Is there anything wrong with using profanity? Some say, yes. Some say, no. How do we know who’s right? How can we find the truth? Jesus said the word of God is truth (John 17:17). So, let’s see what God has to say in his book about using profanity.
1 Thessalonians. 5:22
22. Avoid all appearance of evil.
This verse should be all we need to answer our question, but unfortunately, even though some see profanity as evil, many do not. So let’s look further.
Colossians 3:8
8. But now also, put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, evil-speaking, and FILTHY TALKING, out of your mouth.
Another verse that should be enough, but, for some, it just isn’t. So let’s look at a few more.
Ephesians 4:29 
29. Let no CORRUPT TALK come out of your mouths; Only that which is good, for building up, that it may minister grace to those who hear.
2 Timothy 2:16 
16. But shun PROFANE and vain talking, because they will lead to more ungodliness.
1 Corinthians 15:33 
33. Do not be deceived. Evil speakings corrupt good manners.
These verses tell us to only speak good words that will bless those who hear us talking. They also tell us not to speak corrupt, worthless words because they corrupt good manners and make us ungodly, and yes, it says don’t use profanity.
In Matthew 12:34, Jesus said …. out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
Matthew 12:35-37
35. A good man brings forth good things out of the good treasure of the heart, and an evil man brings forth evil things out of the evil treasure of his heart. 
36. But I tell you, That every idle word that people speak, they will give an account of in the day of judgment. 
37. Because you will be justified by your words, or you will be condemned by your words.
Jesus made it clear that we are accountable for every word we speak. He also says that how we talk is a reflection of the condition of our hearts. As we draw closer to God, the Holy Spirit will tell us when we say things we shouldn’t, and soon we will be able to hear him warn us before we do it. We just need to learn to listen and obey him.
In case all the verses we’ve looked at so far don’t convince you, here are a few more.
Proverbs 16:23 
23. The heart of the wise guides their mouth wisely and adds doctrine to their lips.
James 1:26 
26. If any of you think you are religious and don’t bridle your tongue, but you deceive your own heart, your religion is worthless. 
1 Peter 3:10
10. For you who would love life and see good days, keep your tongue from speaking evil, and your lips from speaking deceit. 
What about listening to others use profanity, either in person, or in movies, TV, radio, or other media?
2 Peter 2:7-8
7 [God] delivered righteous Lot, who was VEXED with the FILTHY CONVERSATION of the wicked: 
8 (For that righteous man living among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds;)
Whatever we fill our minds with is what we become like. If we listen to filthy talk and profanity, we start talking filthy and using profanity, and it will have a negative effect on us, every time. Every Time. I know this to be true from experience. I’ve seen it happen to others, and I’ve experienced it in my own life as well. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says by looking at Jesus every day we will become like him.
2 Corinthians 5:17 
17. Therefore if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things have become new.
There are so many excuses to be like the world, but the Bible says when we truly give ourselves to Jesus we become new creatures. Old things that we used to do are in the past, and we can go forward in newness of life. But, sometimes we hang on to some of that old life, either because we don’t know the full truth yet, or because we have practiced those things for so long that they have become part of who we are. We have to make a conscious decision to obey God and allow him to help us. He will.
James 3:13 
13. Who is WISE and has knowledge among you? let them show their works through a GOOD CONVERSATION, with meekness of wisdom.
Ephesians 5:3-4 
3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you because it is not fitting for Saints, 
4 Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor CRUDE JOKING, which things are not proper, but rather practice giving of thanks.
1 Timothy 4:12 
12. Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to those who believe, in word, IN CONVERSATION, in love, in spirit, in faith, and in PURITY.
Colossians 4:6 
6. Always let your speech be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you should answer every man.
1 Timothy 6:20 
20. O Timothy, keep that which is committed to you, and avoid PROFANE and vain CONVERSATIONS,…
So, is it okay to use profanity and crude humor? The answer from God’s word is clearly, NO.
This last verse should be our prayer each day.
Psalm 19:14 
14. Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my mind be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.
God tells us in his word, the Bible, that using profanity is not acceptable. That means it is wrong. If it’s wrong, it’s a sin. We all need to strive to obey God and be the best person we can possibly be. Christians especially should follow the teachings of God’s word and be a good example to others. We all need to study the Bible more so we can better understand what kind of people God wants us to be. It’s all there in his book, the Holy Bible.

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